But the greatest ________ of being forty is knowing who I am. The most ________ aspect of _______ is the uncertainty you feel about your ________, goals, and dreams. Being young means wondering what is worth working for. Being young means feeling happy with yourself one day and wishing you were never born the _________. It means trying on new selves by taking _____ with different crowds. It means __________ your parents and their way of life one minute and then feeling you will never be as good or as ___________ as they are.