But one of the most telling lessons Ellen and I got in the difference between Chinese and American ideas of education came not in the classroom but in the lobby of the Jinling Hotel where we stayed in Nanjing. 2. He probably got as much pleasure out of the sounds the key made as he did those few times when the key actually found its way into the slot. 3. 我的中国同行,除了少数几个人外,对此事的态度与金陵饭店工作人员一样。 4. 但关键在于,在这个过程中,我们试图让本杰明懂得,一个人是能够很好地自行解决问题的。 5. 我们两种文化的差异也可以从我们各自所怀的忧虑中显示出来。