The second thing I learned that day --- and this is as we clear the George Washington Bridge, which was by not a lot --- I thought about, wow, I really feel one 1 . I've lived a good life. In my own 2 , I've tried to get better at everything I tried. But in my humanity, I also allow 3 to get in. And I regretted the time I 4 things that did not matter with people that matter. And I thought about my relationship with my wife, with my friends, with people. And after, as I 5 that, I decided to 6 from my life. It's not perfect, but it's a lot better. I've not had a fight with my wife in two years. It feels great. I 7 try to be right; I choose to be happy.