阅读理解。 Kitty, my daughter, has started high school. One day, her school coach encouraged her to join the basketball team. Her first thought was that she would ask a friend to join the team with her. I told my daughter that she needed to make her own decision. I didn't want her to miss some great chances in life just because her friends were not doing it. My daughter and I always talk about her future, her hopes and her dreams. And I give myself enough time to sit down and listen to what my daughter is saying. I'm always asking my daughter's opinions about important things. I think children see the same thing s through different eyes. If you respect their opinions, they like to listen to and take your advice. Show your children respect and they will learn to respect others. Remember that our children learn from us, and you are your children's first teacher. 1. When the coach asked Kitty to join the basketball team, she first _____. A. asked her mother for advice B. refused to do it C. wanted to join it with her friends D. tried to make a decision by herself 2. What does the writer NOT do? A. She gives her daughter some useful advice. B. She discusses important things with her daughter. C. She encourages her daughter to do things by herself. D. She asks her daughter to follow her opinions. 3. The underlined word 'respect' means'_____' in Chinese. A. 服从 B. 尊重 C. 反对 D. 表达 4. What is the main idea of the passage? A. Children should follow their parents' opinions at any time. B. Children should express their opinions. C. Parents should make all decisions for their children. D. Parents should respect their children's opinions. 5. The writer plays many important roles in her daughter's life EXCEPT _____. A. a mother B. a listener C. a teacher D. a leader