You may be surprised to see “making sure childrennever suffer” as a mistake. The following __ 1 __may help you understandhow rescuing children from all suffering __ 2 __weakness. A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly strugglingto __ 3 __from its chrysalis( 蛹 ) . He decided to __ 4 __the butterfly. So he peeled( 剥开 ) the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The littleboy was so __ 5 __to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off intothe sky. Then he was horrified __ 6 __he watched the butterfly fall to theground and die because it did not have the muscle __ 7 __to keep flying. Infact , the butterfly's struggleto __ 8 __the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger. Like the little boy , __ 9 __too often want to protect theirchildren from struggle in the __ 10 __of love. They don't realize thattheir children need to struggle , to experience __ 11 __ , to deal with disappointment , and to solve their own problems. Only in this way can children __ 12 __theiremotional strength , become __ 13 __ and develop the skills necessary for the even biggerstruggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencingsufferings can __ 14 __the ups and downs of life. However , it isn't helpful either in this case when parents __ 15 __lectures( 训斥 ) , blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers __ 16 __tosay , “Stop crying and actinglike a spoiled boy. You can't always get what you want.” These __ 17 __wordsshould be avoided. Instead , parents can offer loving support. You can say , “Don't lose __ 18 __ . Be brave! You will succeed if you try again.” Thencomes the tough part—no __ 19 __and no lectures. Simply allow him todiscover that he can get over his disappointment and __ 20 __what he cando to get what he wants in the future. 1 . A. story B . proverb C . saying D . experiment 2 . A. damages B . burns C . creates D . experiences 3 . A. hear B . suffer C . date D . emerge 4 . A. kill B . feed C . help D . rescue 5 . A. excited B . moved C . puzzled D . depressed 6 . A. as B . since C . before D . until 7 . A. power B . energy C . strength D . force 8 . A. come up with B . do away with C . get along with D . break away from 9 . A. teachers B . parents C . relatives D . friends 10 . A .case B . charge C . name D . course 11 . A. friendships B . scholarships C . relationships D . hardships 12 . A. strengthen B . require C . get D . achieve 13 . A. warm­hearted B . strong­willed C . absent­minded D . cold­blooded 14 . A. expect B . predict C . survive D . avoid 15 . A. add B . adapt C . devote D . contribute 16 . A. pretend B . happen C . tend D . seem 17 . A. discouraging B . inspiring C . interesting D . touching 18 . A. heart B . face C . sight D . weight 19 . A. parking B . smoking C . drinking D . rescuing 20 . A .figure out B . carry out C . rule out D . drop out