In order to illustrate why men feel confused when answering a woman's question of how she looks, the writer make a contrast between men and women from __________ aspects. What are the three aspects? First, men don't think of their ___________ in the same way women do. Men think of themselves as __________________ while women always think they are _____________________. Second, men and women think of their appearance in different ways because of the interaction of ________________and ______________ factors. The first factor is that men and women were given different _________when they were young. The second factor is the influence of _________ industry. Women are more likely to be influcend by them than men. Third, men and women have different attitudes towards the ______________of women's appearance.