11 Nevertheless , graduates shouldn't be deceived into thinking they can back off simply because things have become more difficult. A large number of people chasing relatively fewer opportunities can create strong competitive pressure . So, from the outset , keep your résumé professional and up - to - date . 12 To reinforce this essential message , success moving through the odyssey years will come to those who don't expect to achieve their goals right away but know that they must have the strength , capacity and confidence to endure over the long term. If you're a little late with your goals , don't feel like a failure ! Stay strong , be positive , and keep focused ! Someday you will look back and wonder at the vast changes as you passed through the odyssey years.