Adding Humors to Your Conversations Humor adds bright light to your conversations . People like and trust with a good sense of humor . In order to make others laugh , you have to be fun and relaxed . It’s hard to be funny when you’re stressed out .（心力交瘁的） When you feel tense（紧张的）, your humor will disappear . You have to find ways to bring your humor back and feel relaxed . Here are some ideas to keep your humor : 72. When you feel tired , you can just open your favorite book of humor writing or cartoons to lighten the moment . 73. Maybe you have a picture of your kids at Disney World . Maybe it’s a picture of your last year’s Halloween costume . Perhaps a photo will remind you that your dog makes you laugh . The photo will also open the door to fun-filled conversations with visitiors to your office . 74. If you’ve been with people , spend some time alone . If you’ve been sitting , take a walk . If you’ve been in a quiet environment , go someplace exciting . If you’ve been indoors , step outside . Whenever , you’re stressed , your body is usually telling you that you need to do something different . You want to keep yourself in a humor-ready state . 75. This will provide a place for you and your co-workers to have a mind-vacation . Find some fun posters to decorate the room . Put interesting things , like games and puzzles in the room . Design a notice board for fun photos , cartoons and contests . The idea is to fill the room with fun and make people forget about the stress .