Fill in the blanks with appropriate words whose beginning letters have been given. The issue of why divorce occurs is vast and complex. Marriage for a couple is a big life change for both parties. Two different (1) i have to learn to see beyond their own particular needs and think about what’s best for them as a couple. If they fail at this, friction is inevitable and a break-up is very possible. This article looks at three common reasons why divorce (2) o . Infidelity(不忠实) —A cheating spouse causes great pain. The victim feels a profound sense of betrayal and can never fully (3) t his or her partner again. If the person doesn’t demand an immediate divorce, mistrust and doubt in the (4) r can lead to an eventual breakdown of the marriage. Determining why the infidelity happened and whether the marriage should be saved will require the (5) s of a marriage counselor. Money — Money and its management is a great source of stress on almost everyone at some point in their lives. Married people aren’t the only ones that must (6) s this burden. The management and use of money is fertile ground for (7) c in a marriage. Marriage and raising children is costly. It’s common for married people with kids to be in a lot of debt. Big differences in attitude about money and its management can be the last (8) s that breaks a marriage. Exaggerated expectations — Often people have these ridiculous and over-romanticized notions of the ideal mate and of the ideal marriage. These fantasy marriages and mates are the myths of our culture delivered to us daily by the mass (9) m . One must have the ability to escape the confines of one’s self and have the ability to (10) c and truly care about the needs of the other.