Monica is _______ to think so, on both ______. Now a 40-year-old mother of four, she is president of a public sector labor union with 45,000 members. "______ with my employees are probably different from those of male managers ______ me," she says. "I know what it's like to have to call and say my kid got the _______ so I won't be coming in. I have a more ______ style - not soft, just more understanding." The man who is Monica's ______ agrees, "She tends to ______ more and is always looking for a _______. People are happy and flourish because they have an input into decisions and they are not mere ______; their energies are harnessed. On the other hand, consensus takes longer."