A high school history teacher once told us, “If you make one close friend in school, you will be most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life.” teaches that he is right. Good friendship is just not easily . It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a true friendship to . However, there can be disagreement in the need for each of us to think carefully about what kind of friendship we want. To most of us, are considered very important, but we need to make it clear in our minds what kind of friendship we want. Are they to be close or at arm’s length? Do we want to ourselves or do we want to walk on surface(表面)? For some people, many friendships on the surface are enough and that’s all right. But at some point we need to make sure that our are the same as our friends’ expectations. The sharing of experiences including our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to friendships. But it must be done slowly and only if there are signs of interest and action . What are some of the of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon. Deep relationships time. Another “main difficulty” is the selfishness to think one “ ” the other, including his time and attention. , friendships require actions in return. In other words, you must give as as you take. Finally, there is a question of taking care of. Unless you spend time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die . 小题1: A．Knowledge B．Books C．Teachers D．Experience 小题2: A．understood B．formed C．realized D．made 小题3: A．design B．intend C．develop D．appear 小题4: A．no B．any C．not D．some 小题5: A．lives B．relationships C．friendships D．classmates 小题6: A．taken B．left C．given D．kept 小题7: A．own B．share C．think D．suffer 小题8: A．that B．very C．quite D．so 小题9: A．expectations B．attractions C．choices D．ideas 小题10: A．good B．ordinary C．social D．personal 小题11: A．prove B．produce C．weaken D．deepen 小题12: A．carried through B．carried out C．carried on D．carried away 小题13: A．in surprise B．in return C．in turn D．in answer 小题14: A．difficulties B．differences C．disadvantages D．advantages 小题15: A．cost B．spend C．take D．waste 小题16: A．loves B．hates C．plays D．holds 小题17: A．differently B．Fortunately C．Similarly D．Regretfully 小题18: A．many B．much C．little D．possible 小题19: A．reasonable B．comfortable C．spare D．valuable 小题20: A．of B．from C．out D．away