How to See Friendship More than forty thousand readers told us what they looked for in chose friendships, what they expected(51)friends, what they were willing to give in return, and how satisfied they were(52)the quality of their friendships. The(53)give little comfort to social critics. Friendship(54)to be a unique form. of human bonding. Unlike marriage or the ties that(55)parents and children, it is not defined or regulated by(56). Unlike other social roles that we are expected to(57)as citizens, employees, members of professional societies and other organizations--it has its own principle, which is to promote(58)of warmth, trust, love, and affection(59)two people. The survey on friendship appeared in the March(60)of Psychology Today, The findings confirm that issues of trust and betrayal (背叛) are(61)to friendship. They also suggest that our readers do not(62)for friends only among those who are(63)like them, but find many who differ in race, religion, and ethnic (种族的) background. Arguably the most important(64)that emerges from the data,(65), is not something that we found-- but what we did not.