Many neighbor disputes end up in court because of poor communication. If something dangerous or 1) _________ happens, the cops are the obvious solution. But if problems that arise are grayer, communication is the best way to save money and trouble. Here are some tips to be a good neighbor and deal with a bad one: Get to know each other. Being a good neighbor doesn't mean 2) _________ together. Just knowing them well enough to say hi, or maybe borrowing a cup of sugar or loaning gardening tool, can build trust and understanding. Issues are much more likely to occur among strangers than even casual 3) _________. Head off problems before they're problems. If you are 4) _________ at your place, go to all neighbors who might be affected and offer them two things: a 5) _________ invitation to the party and a card with your phone number. If they are not 6) _________ of the noise or there are other problems, your neighbors can call you instead of asking the police to 7) _________. Tell your neighbors what's bothering you - don't assume they know what the problem is. Be open and direct, not passive-aggressive. Ask for their opinions, and wherever possible, propose a solution that 8) _________ and demonstrates a willingness to compromise. Stay cool and positive, even if your neighbors are not. Check with other neighbors. See if anybody else on the block is having similar issues - they may be willing to help 9) _________ it. If one of the neighbors is close to the troublemaker, have them come with you when you 10) _________. Bottom line? As with any relationship, being a good neighbor - or dealing with a bad one- is all about communition.