Notes 1. butt heads — engage in conflict or be in strong disagreement 2. marriage counseling — providing direction or advice on marital problems and disagreements 3. let go of — release, as from one’s grip 4. conviction — an unshakable belief in something without need for proof or evidence 5. stance — a rationalized mental attitude 6. fester — an unpleasant feeling or problem gets worse because it has not been dealt with Listen to the recording and answer the following questions. 1. What is a biggest source of arguments among married couples? 2. What are the major causes to disagreements about money between spouses? 3. Should married couples compromise their principles and convictions? 4. When disagreement about money arises, what should married couples do first? 5. What does it mean by “losing the battle to win the war” in marriage?