A: In chasing my dream, obstacles ( 障碍 ) come my way from time to time. I sometimes think of giving up. As a successful CEO, can you share your experience with me about how to deal with them? B: Yes, I’d be more than happy to do so. To deal with things holding me back, I’ll look closely at them first, and then make a list, instead of saying to myself “ ______ just give up?”. For some obstacles, I will not let excuses _________ . For example, it actually doesn’t help if my blame goes all the way to life not treating me well. By finding the right kind of help, I can grow stronger no matter what and __________ .