Fill in the blanks by selecting suitable words from the word bank. You may not use any of the words more than once. A appreciated. B context. C reaction. D comment. E perfection. F admiration. G magnifying. H complexion. I accessories. J achieving. K adhered L considered. M gorgeous. N absurd. O handsome! I was once in a relationship with a woman who was the most brilliant, creative, and driven person I’d ever known. I told her these things often because she didn’t see herself this way, despite 1______great success and acclaim (称赞)in her professional fields. She was also 2_____ and sexy, though she seemed not realize this either, so I told her these things too. But while I thought it was more important to praiseher brilliance and seem to me more to her that she was 3_______attractive. My experience with this girlfriend exemplifies a common phenomenon in life--- when it comes to complimenting a woman, men often walk a very difficult line. Of course, 4_____ matters. In a professional setting, talking about appearance is often inappropriate, but at a singles club, it may be important. She will be very pleased if a man thinks her clothes and 5_____are pretty, or her hair looks wonderful. However, things in between these two cases are unclear. Women have every right to be recognized and 6_____ for their intelligence and creativity. But at the same time, they want to be admired for their looks as well, for example they’re perfect skin 7____and elegant outfits. Unfortunately, most guys don’t understand this. If we receive compliments from women, they are usually about our achievements, not our looks. Most of us don’t expect a woman to tell us how 8.______ or sexy we are, and some of us find it hard to regard such a(n) 9_____ as sincere. I’m not saying it’s very hard to be a guy these days. It’s important for every man to understand how to treat women with both respect and 10______.