The following are some examples of common problems in communication between men and women. Analyze these cases with your partner. Case Study 1 Mary is very upset when she meets John for dinner. She explains that she is worried about a friend who has begun drinking heavily. W hen John suggests she should get her friend counseling, Mary repeats how worried she feels. John tells Mary to make sure her friend does not drive after drinking. A t this point Mary explodes, saying that she does not need his advice. I rritated at her lack of appreciation for his help, John asks, “ Then why did you ask for it? ” Exasperated, Mary responds, “ Oh, never mind. I ’ ll talk to Ann. At least she cares how I feel. ”