Where do you go when you want to learn something? School? A friend? A tutor? These are all 1 places of learning. But it may well be that the learning you really want 2 somewhere else instead. I had the 3 of seeing this first hand on a 4 . My daughter plays on a recreational soccer team. They did very well this season and so 5 a tournament, which normally was only for more skilled club teams. This led to some 6 experiences on Saturday as they played against teams 7 trained. Through the first two games, her 8 did not get one serious shot on goal. As a parent, I 9 seeing my daughter playing her best, 10 still defeated. It seemed that something clicked with the 11 between Saturday and Sunday. When they 12 for their Sunday game, they were 13 different. They had begun to integrate( 融合 )the kinds of play and teamwork they had 14 the day before into their 15 . They played aggressively and 16 scored a goal. It 17 me that playing against the other team was a great 18 moment for all the girls on the team. I think it is a general principle. 19 is the best teacher. The lessons they learned may not be 20 what they would have gotten in school, but are certainly more personal and meaningful, because they had to work them out on their own.