II . 阅读理解 Dear Seth, You ’ re only three years old,and at this point in your life you can ’ t read, much less understand what I ’ m going to try to tell you in this letter.But I ’ ve been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you,about my life so far as I reflect on what I ’ ve learned,and about my role as a dad in trying to prepare you for the trials that you will face in the coming years. You are young,and life has not yet to show a cold face to you,to throw disappointments and loneliness and pain into your path.You have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work,by the slings and arrows of everyday life. For this,be thankful.You are at a wonderful time of life.You have many wonderful stages of life still to come,but they are not without their costs and risks. I hope to help you along your path by sharing some of the best of what I ’ ve learned.As with any advice,take it with a grain of salt .What works for me might not work for you. Life can be cruel There will be people in your life who won ’ t be very nice.They ’ ll tease you because you ’ re different or for no good reason.They might try to bully you or hurt you. There ’ s not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them,and learn to choose friends who are kind to you,who actually care about you,and who make you feel good about yourself.When you find friends like this,hold on to them,treasure them,spend time with them,be kind to them and love them. There will be times when you meet with disappointment instead of success.Life won ’ t always turn out the way you want.This is just another things you ’ ll have to learn to deal with.But instead of letting these things get you down,push on.Accept disappointment and learn to persevere,to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls.Learn to turn negatives into positives,and you ’ ll do much better in life. You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love.I hope you don ’ t have to face this too much,but happens.Again,not much you can do but to heal,and to move on with your life.Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life,and learn to use them to make you stronger. But be open to life anyway Yes,you ’ ll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life, but don ’ t let that close you to new things.Don ’ t retreat from life; don ’ t hide or wall yourself off.Be open to new things,new experiences and new people. You might get your heart broken 10 times,but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time.If you shut yourself off from love,you ’ ll miss out on that woman,and the happiest times of your life. You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet, and after meeting dozens of jerks,find a true friend.If you close yourself off to new people,and don ’ t open your heart to them,you ’ ll avoid pain but also lose out on meeting some incredible people,who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life. You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying,you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments.Failure is a stepping stone to success. Life isn ’ t a competition You will meet many people who will try to do better than you,in school,in college,at work.They ’ ll try to have nicer cars,bigger houses,nicer clothes,cooler gadgets.To them,life is a competition—they have to do better than their peers to be happy. Here ’ s a secret:Life isn ’ t a competition. If you spend that journey always trying to impress others,to outdo others,you ’ re wasting your journey.Instead,learn to enjoy the journey.Make it a journey of happiness,of constant learning,of continual improvement,of love. Don ’ t worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material,or even a better-paying job.None of that matters a whit,and none of it will make you happier.You ’ ll acquire these things and then only want more.Instead,learn to be satisfied with having enough and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things...use that time doing things you love. Finally,know that I love you and always will.You are starting out on a weird, scary,daunting,but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey,and I will be there for you when I can.Godspeed. Love, Your dad 1.According to the father,all of the following are trials the son has to face except .